Baby Talk

      Children need to hear a word in context 300-500 times before the word begins to have meaning for them. Because of this, it is important to talk with your child conversationally. Even if this feels strange to talk to a baby that is not verbally responding, you are doing your child a great favor. And, if you observe your child, you will notice a response. He may follow you with his eyes, smile, or coo. They hear you even when you don't think they are listening.

     One of the most effective ways of doing this is by observing your child and learning what interests him/her. What is their favorite toy, activity, or book? Get down on their eye level and show interest in what they are doing.

     At some point, they will communicate with you so watch for that. They will lift something to show you, meet your eyes to make sure you are watching, or some other way of attempting to get your attention. It may be verbal or nonverbal so keep your eyes open to their effort of letting you know what they are interested in.

     Listen to any verbal attempts. Likely they will make some sound to elicit communication with you. This is when it is your turn. Now they have shown you what they are interested in.  You have a pretty good idea that they are trying to tell you about this toy they are holding. Great! Now talk about it. Tell your child about that toy, pet, book, or whatever it is they are showing you. Say the word many times during the conversation. Describe it using that word as often as possible. Touch the toy, point to it, play with it. In just a minute you can expose that word, in context and with meaning for your child, many times.

     This is a fun time for you and your child and a bonding experience as well. Don't be afraid to get down on the floor with them so you are on the same level as they are. Talk to them and listen for their attempts to communicate with you.

     I have had a lot of success with this practice. It is amazing the relationship you can build with your child while you are teaching them. Give it a try. Let me know how it works for you.